FW: 資深熟男熟女要自強

[alexhuang1961]

人有三老全憑運氣

資深熟男的遺憾-「最多的就是錢」

若不是他自我介紹，我猜想不到在我面前的這位70幾歲的長者，曾是香港上市公司的大
老闆。60歲的老伴去世後，他決定回到老家台灣度晚年，我覺得納悶，他的3個兒子分
別住香港、加拿大及美國，怎麼不選擇這些地方，讓兒子方便照顧？

他回答：「兒子長大，有他們的人生，選擇在那幾個國家居住，我還是得一個人住，那
還不如回台灣，有熟識的親戚同學可以聊天。6年前，我找了住加拿大的兒子吃飯，告
訴兒子我想回台灣，兒子問：『那你在蒙特婁的房子給我好不好？』我回答『再想
想』。從那時起到現在，這兒子一通電話也沒有，所以人要想開，伴侶、孩子都不能強
求，人只要清楚自己要過什麼樣的日子就好，不要一輩子辛苦，就為了留房子、金錢給
孩子，你看我最多的就是錢，但只是一句話，家人不相往來。」

一段孤獨心涼的遭遇，並沒有打敗他的活力，他回台後在教會當志工，教小朋友念書寫
字，他笑著告訴我：「我在教會裡，有一堆孩子叫我爺爺，不是也蠻好的嗎！我有兒
子，就像沒兒子一樣，沒給他們機票錢，他們也懶得回來看我；人有三老，一是老伴，
這完全憑運氣，若老伴不好相處，只是徒增煩惱；另一是老友，但即便是老友，萬一意
見鬧僵，幾十年的友誼也沒有了；我們唯一可以自己掌握的老，就是老本，身邊有夠用
的錢，把自己的身體顧好，不用靠別人，就活得自在。」

[歐伊斯特拉夫.黃]

Every kind of relationship is momentous not stationary,no

guarantee or lasting forever.

Similiar to a photon spectrum, we should take every possibility

into consideration.

[bokey53]

於我心有戚戚焉,照顧好身體,把握與小孩的親子互動,努力作自己有興趣的工作,便是王道..

[lion]

求人不如求己
還是老本最實在

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