世界上最奇特的治療師

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世界上最奇特的治療師



兩年前，我聽說有關在夏威夷一位心理學家在沒有面對面為任何病人進行正式諮商的情況下，就治癒了整個院區患有精神疾病的罪犯，用的是一個來自夏威夷的神奇療法。這位心理學家會先研究罪犯的資訊表，然後再看自己內在是如何創造這精神疾病罪犯的疾病。當他改善自己也能改善病人。



我第一次聽到這個故事，我還以為它是一個城市的傳奇。任何一個人本身如何都能醫治自己和他人呢？即使本身是最好的自我完善主人又怎麼能治好患有精神疾病罪犯呢？
它沒有任何意義。這是不符合邏輯所以我不理會這事。



不過，一年後我又再次聽說。我聽到治療師使用一種夏威夷的療程稱為荷歐波諾波諾。我從來沒有聽說過，但我不能讓這件事離開我的腦海裡。如果故事是真實的，我要知道得更多。



我一直認為“全部責任”的意思是我要對言行思維負責。除此之外，它是我的手法。我想大多數人認為對百分之百負責任的方式。我們為我們行為負責，而不是別人做了什麼。這位夏威夷治療師醫治了那些患有精神疾病的人應該會教我先進的全部責任觀點。



他的名字是伊賀列阿卡拉．修．藍博士。我們第一次電話大概花了一個小時交談。我請他告訴我他進行治療工作的完整故事。他說他在夏威夷州立醫院工作了四年。那裡收容精神疾病罪犯的病房是個危險區域,每個月都有心理學家辭職,員工也常請病假,或者乾脆不來了。大家經過那個病房區的時候,都會背貼著牆走路,因為怕被病患攻擊。那並不是一個可以愉快居住的地方。



修．藍博士告訴我，他從未正式見過病患。他同意有間辦公室查看他們的檔案。當他在看病歷時,會清理自己;而當他在清理自己時,病患也開始康復了。



「幾個月後，那些戴上腳鐐手銬的病患被允許可以自由走動」，他告訴我「而其他本來必須服用高劑量藥物的病患，藥量則開始減少。然後，那些被認定永遠不會有機會獲釋的人，被釋放了。」



我嚇到了。



「還不只這樣。」他繼續說著，「醫院的員工開始喜歡來工作，曠職與人員流動率過高的情形消失了。後來我們的工作人員供過於求，因為病患被釋放，而所有員工卻都來上班了。現在那個病房區已經關閉了。」



這時我必須問一個重要問題：「你在自己內在做了什麼事，讓那些人改變？」



「我只是清理了我的內在，是治癒他們被創造精神疾病罪犯的一部分。」他說。



我不明白。



修．藍博士解釋說，對自己的人生負全部責任的意思是，你生命中的每件事 –就只因為它在你的生命裡 –都是你的責任。從字面上來說，整個世界是你創造的。



哇！這很難讓人接受。為我自己的言行負責是一回事，為我生命中「每一個人」的言行負責是又是另一回事。然而事實是：當你對自己的生命負完全責任，那麼所有你看到的、聽到的、品嘗到的、接觸到的，或者以任何方式經驗到的都是你的責任，因為它出現在你的生命裡。



這個意思是，恐怖分子，總統、經濟 -_任何你所經驗到不喜歡的人事物 –都要由你來療癒。或者不妨這麼說：要不是從你的內在投射出來，他們是不存在的。問題不在他們，是於你。而要改變他們，必須先改變你自己。



我知道這很難理解，更不用說接受或實踐。因為責怪遠比負完全責任簡單多了。但是在我和修．藍博士的對話中，我開始了解，對他及荷歐波諾波諾這個療法來說，療癒就代表愛自己。如果你想改善你的人生，就必須療癒你的生命；如果你想治療任何人 - 即使是有精神疾病的罪犯-也要由療癒自己做起。



我問修．藍博士他是如何療癒自己的。他在察看那些病歷時，究竟做了什麼?



「我就是一直說『對不起』『我愛你』，一次又一次。」，他解釋著。“



原來愛自己就是提升自己最好的方法。當你提升了自己，你也改善了你的世界。讓我給你一個簡單的實例：有一天，有人寄了一封電子郵件使我心煩意亂。在過去我就會熱烈的情緒化處理工作，或試圖發出合理又討厭的訊息。這一次，我決定嘗試修．藍博士的方法。我一直靜靜地說，「對不起」和「我愛你」，我沒有特別向任何人說。我只是單純喚起愛的心念，來療癒外部所創造的環境。



在一個小時內，我收到了來自同一人的電子郵件。他為他先前的訊息道歉。請記住，我並沒有採取任何外在的行動來獲取那份道歉。我甚至沒有回他信。然而，說「我愛你」，莫名中療癒和改創他了。



後來，我參加了荷歐波諾波諾修．藍博士的工作坊。他現在70歲，一位慈祥體貼的權威祖父，有點深居簡出。他讚揚我的書吸引人的因素。他告訴我，當我改善自己，我書的共鳴會提高，每個人閱讀時都會感受到。總之，我有改善，我的讀者都會有所改善。



「對於那已經出售和流通在外的書呢？」我問。



「他們是不是在那裡?」他解釋說，再次吹進我的腦海裡與他的神性智慧。「 他們還是與你同在。」



總之，沒有在那裡。



這將需要一整本書來解釋這種先進的技術與它應有的深度。我只想說，每當你想要改善你生活中的任何事物，只要去觀看一個地方：你的內在。



「當你觀照，用愛去完成它。」



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The World's Most Unusual Therapist



Two years ago, I heard about a therapist in Hawaii who cured a complete ward of criminally insane patients--without ever seeing any of them. The psychologist would study an inmate's chart and then look within himself to see how he created that person's illness. As he improved himself, the patient improved.



When I first heard this story, I thought it was an urban legend. How could anyone heal anyone else by healing himself? How could even the best self-improvement master cure the criminally insane?
It didn't make any sense. It wasn't logical, so I dismissed the story.



However, I heard it again a year later. I heard that the therapist had used a Hawaiian healing process called ho 'oponopono. I had never heard of it, yet I couldn't let it leave my mind. If the story was at all true, I had to know more.



I had always understood "total responsibility" to mean that I am responsible for what I think and do. Beyond that, it's out of my hands. I think that most people think of total responsibility that way. We're responsible for what we do, not what anyone else does. The Hawaiian therapist who healed those mentally ill people would teach me an advanced new perspective about total responsibility.



His name is Dr. Ihaleakala Hew Len. We probably spent an hour talking on our first phone call. I asked him to tell me the complete story of his work as a therapist. He explained that he worked at Hawaii State Hospital for four years. That ward where they kept the criminally insane was dangerous. Psychologists quit on a monthly basis. The staff called in sick a lot or simply quit. People would walk through that ward with their backs against the wall, afraid of being attacked by patients. It was not a pleasant place to live, work, or visit.



Dr. Len told me that he never saw patients. He agreed to have an office and to review their files. While he looked at those files, he would work on himself. As he worked on himself, patients began to heal.



"After a few months, patients that had to be shackled were being allowed to walk freely," he told me. "Others who had to be heavily medicated were getting off their medications. And those who had no chance of ever being released were being freed."



I was in awe.



"Not only that," he went on, "but the staff began to enjoy coming to work. Absenteeism and turnover disappeared. We ended up with more staff than we needed because patients were being released, and all the staff was showing up to work. Today, that ward is closed."



This is where I had to ask the million dollar question: "What were you doing within yourself that caused those people to change?"



"I was simply healing the part of me that created them," he said.



I didn't understand.



Dr. Len explained that total responsibility for your life means that everything in your life - simply because it is in your life--is your responsibility. In a literal sense the entire world is your creation.



Whew. This is tough to swallow. Being responsible for what I say or do is one thing. Being responsible for what everyone in my life says or does is quite another. Yet, the truth is this: if you take complete responsibility for your life, then everything you see, hear, taste, touch, or in any way experience is your responsibility because it is in your life.



This means that terrorist activity, the president, the economy--anything you experience and don't like--is up for you to heal. They don't exist, in a manner of speaking, except as projections from inside you. The problem isn't with them, it's with you, and to change them, you have to change you.



I know this is tough to grasp, let alone accept or actually live. Blame is far easier than total responsibility, but as I spoke with Dr. Len, I began to realize that healing for him and in ho 'oponopono means loving yourself. If you want to improve your life, you have to heal your life. If you want to cure anyone--even a mentally ill criminal--you do it by healing you.



I asked Dr. Len how he went about healing himself. What was he doing, exactly, when he looked at those patients' files?



"I just kept saying, 'I'm sorry' and 'I love you' over and over again," he explained.



Turns out that loving yourself is the greatest way to improve yourself, and as you improve yourself, you improve your world. Let me give you a quick example of how this works: one day, someone sent me an email that upset me. In the past I would have handled it by working on my emotional hot buttons or by trying to reason with the person who sent the nasty message. This time, I decided to try Dr. Len's method. I kept silently saying, "I'm sorry" and "I love you," I didn't say it to anyone in particular. I was simply evoking the spirit of love to heal within me what was creating the outer circumstance.



Within an hour I got an e-mail from the same person. He apologized for his previous message. Keep in mind that I didn't take any outward action to get that apology. I didn't even write him back. Yet, by saying "I love you," I somehow healed within me what was creating him.



I later attended a ho 'oponopono workshop run by Dr. Len. He's now 70 years old, considered a grandfatherly shaman, and is somewhat reclusive. He praised my book, The Attractor Factor. He told me that as I improve myself, my book's vibration will raise, and everyone will feel it when they read it. In short, as I improve, my readers will improve.



"What about the books that are already sold and out there?" I asked.



"They aren't out there," he explained, once again blowing my mind with his mystic wisdom. "They are still in you."



In short, there is no out there.



It would take a whole book to explain this advanced technique with the depth it deserves. Suffice it to say that whenever you want to improve anything in your life, there's only one place to look: inside you.



"When you look, do it with love."



This article is from the book "Zero Limits" by Dr. Joe Vitale and Dr. Len
Copyright 2005 by Joe Vitale. All rights reserved.
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