養不教父之過／孩子行為誰該負責?

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養不教父之過／孩子行為誰該負責?

【聯合報╱菜根（新北泰山）】 2011.05.12 03:01 am


有一回，我剛踏入超商，看到有一個孩子邊哭邊嚷，吵著想買東西，家長則在旁邊怒罵。僵持了許久，家長大聲說：「我不管了，你就留在這裡哭，愛哭多久隨便你。」隨即轉身走出店門。

可能是看到媽媽走了，也可能是希望落空，買不成東西，小孩哭得更大聲。我買好東西，正要去結帳，突然聽到「乒乒乓乓」聲響。

上前一看，是那個孩子在發脾氣，他把櫃台上的物品掃落一地。隨即，看到那個母親快步走入店內，她拉起孩子的手，查看孩子有沒受傷。我想，當她確定沒事後，應該會訓斥孩子，要孩子向店家、客人道歉。沒想到她竟然轉頭向店員、店長興師問罪說：「你們是怎麼顧店的？萬一我的孩子受傷，誰來負責？」 (偽可愛) 聽了這話，我當場愣住，誰該負責？不該是超商吧！超商並非托兒所，沒有義務照顧「耍賴」的孩子。店員和店長都沒吭聲，可能是和氣生財，不想得罪顧客，但是卻讓那位家長說得振振有辭。

此事讓我想起在某國中服務的經驗，當時校園裡有一位學生經常惹事，甚至跑進別班教室裡，把人打得鼻青臉腫。學校請家長出面，共同商討對策，孰料家長一開口就說：「我的孩子在家裡很乖，不知道為什麼在學校會變成這樣？」

校方當場傻眼，後來，我從友人口中得知，事實並非如此，那個孩子在社區裡的表現，也讓許多人搖頭。養不教，父（母）之過，把責任推給別人，或許可以躲過眼前這一回，但若孩子日後變壞，家長豈能置身事外？

【2011/05/12 聯合報】@ http://udn.com/
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沒想到羊前薯長竟然轉頭向醫師、醫院興師問罪說：「你們是怎麼顧病人的？萬一醫療品質變差，誰來負責？」

[brian1968]

當然是健保設計者負責囉 (挖鼻孔) (挖鼻孔) (挖鼻孔)

[yuyj]

當然是健保設計者負責囉 (挖鼻孔) (挖鼻孔) (挖鼻孔)

設局者依舊自我感覺良好 (打小人) (打小人) (打小人) (打小人) (打小人)

[歐伊斯特拉夫]

80% gentic constitution+20% education. (眼汪汪)

[TC]

也常常聽到小朋友在診所裡跑操場, 蹦蹦蹦蹦跑過來, 又蹦蹦蹦蹦跑過去.
也不見家長訓斥.

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